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Is Your Relationship Healthy?

 

Danger Assessment  When you call the Serene Harbor Hotline it is most likely that questions will be asked. We ask these question to help assess the degree of danger that exists in the relationship.  Your responses to the questions can be used along with the advocate’s experience and intuition to determine the likelihood of an attack. Once a danger assessment is made, you can work with a Serene Harbor advocate to develop an appropriate safety plan.

Is Your Relationship Healthy?

1. Does the other person pick your friends and decide if and when you can hang out with them?

2. Does the other person make threats or spread rumors about you to get their way?

3. Does the other person become jealous of your other friends, especially those of the opposite sex?

4. Does the other person try to get you to do things you do not want to do?

5. Does the other person say mean things about you or embarrass you?

6. Does the other person make you feel stupid when you say what you are thinking or feeling?

7. Does the other person make you feel guilty?

8. Does the other person blame all the problems on you?

9. Does the other person go through your locker, backpack, cell phone, etc?

10. Does the other person hit, slap, push or grab you?

IF YOU ANSWERED YES TO SOME OF THESE QUESTIONS, YOU ARE IN AN UNHEALTHY AND POTENTIALLY DANGEROUS RELATIONSHIP.

The quicker you can remove yourself from the situation, the better.  There is help and support available.

 

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